Is Your Child Musically Inclined?

 

Let her sing!

Many kids show a love for music at a very early age. Some like to sing and others seem to have a natural talent for playing instruments. If your child is musically inclined you will probably want to encourage the talent along. The reality is, some parents overlook the traits of a musically gifted child. Don’t let that happen to you – here are some things to be on the lookout for.

Signs of a Musically Gifted Child

If you think your child may be musically inclined you should watch for some of these signs:

• ·         Your child has a strong interest in playing an instrument and needs little instruction or help
• ·         He/she remembers songs and seems to be able to hear music in his/her head
• ·         Your child enjoys spending long periods of time playing or practicing
• ·         He/she writes songs

Of course, these are just some of the things you should look for. Other ‘signs’ can include the ability to read music at an early age and a great sense of rhythm.

Don't worry - he'll grow into the guitar!

Raising a Musically Inclined Child

So if you have discovered that your child is indeed musically inclined, you would probably like some tips on how to proceed. After all, the child’s talent should be encouraged – not wasted.

Let your child lead the way – that is, find out what it is that he/she wants to do with the talent. Is your child interested in formal lessons or would she/he prefer to ‘play’ with the idea of music? Perhaps it is better to provide some instruction as well as to allow your child to explore his or her music inclinations.

An instructor can provide insights based on experience.

Even if instruction is only a temporary part of the child’s life, it will help enhance the natural talent he/she has. In addition, a professional instructor can help deepen your child’s appreciation for music.

Making the Determination

Knowing whether your child is truly gifted or not can be more difficult than you might expect; it is wise to get opinions from experienced instructors.

Keep it fun!

Every child that has a love for music should be allowed to pursue that interest. Keep in mind, musically gifted and musically inclined children can be ‘turned off’ if they are pressured to do more than they are willing to do musically. Show support according to your child’s desires. This may be as simple as encouraging plenty of play time with a favorite instrument or by allowing your child to perform for you, or, at the other end of the spectrum, you and your child may opt for formal lessons. Who knows, your child may be famous someday!

This Package From Santa blog post was created by Debbie Allen.